Whether you are considering filing for a divorce or you have been asked for one, the imminent thing you would want to do before the legal process overtakes you is to get answers for the following questions such as

1. what does the whole legal process entail?
2. who will get the children?
3. what can I do to get custody, care and control of the children?
4. what about financial support for my children?
5. am I entitled to maintenance?
6. how do I deal with the assets acquired by one or both of us during the marriage?
7. what can I do to come out better financially?

Divorce

In Singapore, the Women’s Charter (Cap. 353) governs divorce proceedings. In order to file for divorce, either of the parties to the marriage must (a) have domiciled in Singapore at the commencement of the proceedings; or (b) habitually resident in Singapore for a period of 3 years immediately preceding the commencement of the proceedings.

It must be noted that no petition for divorce shall be presented to the court unless at the date of the presentation of the petition, 3 years have passed since the date of the marriage. However, you may still petition for divorce before 3 years have passed on the ground that the case is one of exceptional hardship suffered by you.

The only ground necessary to file for divorce in Singapore is that the marriage between you and your spouse has irretrievably broken down, that is, there is nothing else you and your spouse can do to repair the marital discord. However, you may consider attending counseling sessions to see if the marriage could be salvaged.

In order that the Court is satisfied that your marriage has broken down irretrievably, you must prove one or more of the following facts, namely:

1. that the respondent (your spouse) has committed adultery and the petitioner (you) finds it intolerable to live with the respondent;
2. that the respondent has behaved in such a way that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to live with the respondent;
3. that the respondent has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of at least 2 years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition;
4. that the parties to the marriage have lived apart for a continuous period of at least 3 years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition and the respondent consents to a decree being granted;
5. that the parties to the marriage have lived apart for a continuous period of at least 4 years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition.

Judicial Separation

You may wish to live permanently apart from your spouse by reason of one or more of the above facts without commencing divorce proceedings for various reasons. This is possible if you apply to the Court for Judicial Separation. ANNULMENT On a different note, a marriage may be annulled on the following grounds:

1. that the marriage has not been consummated owing to the incapacity of either party to consummate it;
2. that the marriage has not been consummated owing to the wilful refusal of the respondent to consummate it;
3. that at the time of the marriage the respondent was suffering from venereal disease in a communicable form;
4. that at the time of the marriage the wife respondent was pregnant by some person other than the petitioner.

The above grounds are not exhaustive. You may wish to consult a lawyer for more advice.

An annulment upon being granted by the Court would essentially put you in the position you were before you were married, that is, it is as if you have never been married before.